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If yo girlfriend/boyfriend wanted to do somethin like start workin out at the gym with someone(a "friend") of the opposite sex (or was invited by sum1 else of the opposite sex to join them), would you be coo wit it? or would u be pissed and jus tell her/him that they cant do it?

My answer:

Me, personally, I see no big deal with it. I mean hell if they were friends before yall started datin` then i mean hey you can`t expect them to give up a friend ya know? now if you think that person of the opposite sex is feeling your significant other then yea voice your opinion. but i do agree all dudes are dogs lol. but if yall have trust; trust then don` even stress it that much and if it bothers you that bad then just tag along. see but that would make you look like you don` trust them and you really don` what those issues now do you?

jealously is definitely not the biggest issue. i mean people get jealous it`s apart of life. if you say you don get jealous then you a damn lie! and true you definitely can not tell somebody what they can or can not do. and if they don` like your opinion then maybe you shouldn`t be with them. simple as that.

shinguards+&elbowpadss.

obsessed much?

ok so obsessed came out this past friday.and i must say that that movie was amazing! beyonce` kicked ass in it. now i`m really not a fan of hers when it comes to her acting skills but homegirl did the damn thing! ok so the movie was about this [fine-ass] man name Derek Charles[Idris Elba] who just got promoted and what not. anyway he is married to Sharon [Beyonce` Knowles]. So one day this temp, Lisa [Ali Larther], comes to work in the same building as Derek things start to get a little creepy. Homegirl starts obsessing over him. i mean she start swearin` up and down that he wants her when he just like 'psh girl. i got a wife and a kid' (lol). Lisa was not going to take no as an answer. so she starts im`n him sending him emails. this bitch even tried to have sex with him at a christmas party! haha. need i remind you Derek has not told his wife [Knowles] anything about this. so then he goes to this retreat with his co-workers and crazy stalker girl shows up. this woman has the audacity to drug his drink and i`m yellin` at the scream DON`T DRINK IT! but of course nobody listens to jasmine haha. so anyway he drinks and homegirl sneaks into his room. they don` actually show but i`m guessin she dated raped his ass lol. i would`ve. -dead- so he wakes up not remembering anything. and she`s all like 'you were great last night' so he snapped on her ass. and this bitch goes and tries to commit suicide in his hotel room. OH LORD! so they get her ass to the hospital and all that and that`s when his wife starts to find out. she kicked his ass out of the house for three months! lol three! the investigating officer tells them that crazy psycho girl went to san francisco with her sister so they shouldn`t have to worry. WRONG!. they go out for dinner on his birthday and guess who show up at their house while they`re gone? you guessed it LISA. so she goes in their son`s room and his holdin him like he`s hers and what not. then she leaves. when they get back home the babysitter tells them that a friend came by to see the baby and they panic. they run upstairs and discover their son ain`t in his room. So derek races down stairs to his car and gets ready to pull off when BAM! his son in the back seat with a lipstick print on his forehead. CRAZY! i know lol. that`s when beyonce gets real hood. she calls lisa leavin` voicemails and shit. then one day sharon and derek were going out of town to see sharon`s parents and she forgets to arm the security system. She gets back to the house to find lisa in her bed with HER nightgown on. and that`s when things get bad. Sharon starts whoopin that ass but you`re gonna have to watch the movie to see how it ends.....

obsessed much?

shinguards +& elbowpadss .

FUN DAY....

im gonna love you eitha way .

i`ve come to the realization that i am utterly, uncontrollably in love with my best friend of three years. otis wayne. haha. i laugh at that name. but back to the topic at hand. so yea i`m totally in love with this boy. we`ve been through hell and back. we`ve probably talked like a million and one times but have only dated once. wierd huh? i know. but i just don` know what it is about him that has me soo flippin gone.

i actually consider myself stuck on dumb because every time we even attempt to date it ends bad. but the love we got for each other is undeniable. everyone sees it, we see it, hell even my moms sees it but we just try not to go there.

but its becoming harder just being his best friend. especially with her in the picture. she`s not a bad girl ; she just has stalker qualities lol. she really loves him too. but i just know that it`s not the same type of love i have for him. i know absolutely everything there is to know about him. maybe that`s the problem.

maybe if i isolate myself from him the love might go away….naw that`s impossible. i`ve asked myself a hundred times why does he keep coming back in my life? why does he leave me just so he can`t hurt me? why does he feel that he`s not good enough for me?

i`ve tried to convince myself that he`s not either but no avail. i don`t understand how people do it. how do they look their husband/wife or boy/girlfriend in the face knowing that they are in love with someone else? i can`t do that. i don` think i want to.

My aunt and sis says that me and him are gonna get married one day. which i only laugh at but always keep that idea in my mind. they say we have a love and basketball type of relationship.

i just hate things get messy when we try to become boyfriend and girlfriend. everything always go sooooo smoothly when we don`t label each other. could that be an issue? does it show that we`re both not willing to commit to each other. idk.

although it gets harder to just be his friend, i definitely could not see my life without being his friend. my life would totally suck with out him. so im gonna love him eitha way.


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militaryy . hmm i like lmaoo.

soo ummm i`m like soo addicted to military dudes

lmaoo. i`m so serious though.

it`s just something about military that gets me

+& no it`s not the money .lol. i know that was the first

thing yall was thinking lmaoo. but naw i think it`s the security

ya know ? it`s like at the end of the day i know i`ma be alright.

but anyway it`s a new military dude in my life.

his name is mike gutner lol that name.

naw but he`s real cool people. i guess we`ll see

how this goes. first there was erik then there was curtis then there was hayes +&

now there is mike lmaoo. i`m such a airforce hoe lol.

but naw. im trying to talk to just one person this time

it`s time i stop bein childish and stop playin` games .

PEACE +& 808`S SIGNS . =D

+& it goes a little something.....

HAPPY EASTER !

sooo umm my easter was pretty darn awesome.

i didn`t have to work ; which was pretty cool.

i`ve been listenin` to music all day.

i`ve jus about gone through my whole itunes.

haha.

can we say bored ?

and i`ve noticed that a lot songs have this one lil line.

"and it goes a lil something"

why is that?

idk. do youdk ? haha.

like i said i was pretty darn bored.

PEACE SIGNS +& 808`S

ehh ; `ello world .

this is my first time blogging ever !

how awesome ! lol . welp for the basicks just look to the flippin sidebar DUH.

sooo what would you grand people like to know about me ?

idk . well for starters i just got back from the movies.

i went to see fast and the furious. can we say awesome ?!

though it could`ve been better. but paul walker was

flipping amazing in that movie

OMG !!!

i would sooo eye sex him lmaoo.

i really don` know how this blog stuff works sooo

bear w/ me okkk.

but for now i`m signin` out.

PEACE SIGNS +& 808`S